Fantasy allows you to cheat life...by having your regular (perhaps limiting) life and all the other ones your futile mind can create. You can live many lives and the fantasy ones are in your total control.
The key thing is to understand the line of demarcation between reality and cerebral fiction. If you create an elaborate fantasy of being a prince with a harem, remember as you walk outside your door that you cannot treat people as "subjects' and that most women are worthy of more than being members of a harem.
The most important thing is not to seek approval of others for what you do. Pursue your own happiness. Those who value you and what you create, will come to you. The rest..you just don't bother with. Listen there are 6 billion people. Just enjoy those who value you.... and enjoy yourself.
P.S. What I found enjoyable about this site is that it is funny, entertaining and erotic. The women are beautiful but placed in a ridiculously vulnerable position. Since neither you nor I are cannibals nor violent, I interpret all this to mean that we are responding to the powerlessness of men in today's American society. Women have the edge because of men's controllable sex drives. We'll do anything to get sex, sparing no expense, devoting incredible amounts of time and energy, giving up our freedom and dreams, etc.....What this site does is make beautiful women (the kind we love) vulnerable, but in a light and ridiculously delicious (no pun intended) way. I guess you may be exhibiting both your love and frustration about women in a light and entertaining way. GOOD FOR YOU. You can't help it if you're creative. Keep up the good job.