For others, men and women, the idea of sacrificing themselves for the pleasure of others...especially those who attract them sexually...has a S&M quality that fascinates. "Please love me...take me I am yours...take all of me for your pleasure...I am lonely and feel unloved...desire my flesh, desire me please!" For a moment in time such lost souls are wanted, if only as dinner! For a brief interval their drab lives have meaning and purpose...they are the center of attention!" Their 15 minutes of fame may be fatal, but the thought of having it and being important is worth it to them...at least in fantasy.